My Apology Letter, I'm Sorry Dad

My Apology Letter, I'm Sorry Dad

Dear Daddy,

I’m writing this letter as an apology for my unessential behavior. I don’t really know where to start, I have so much to say but don’t know how to begin.

I know it's been hard for you and mom when I don’t act right, the worry I have put you both through, the pain. This upsetting mess has been so hard to for you guys to put up with. Why didn’t I respect all your commands or why didn’t I listen to you sometimes even when you sat there and talked to me nicely? I don’t even understand it myself--why I do these thing that raise your blood pressure and makes you feel hurt. And this sorrow was caused by my selfish and thoughtless behavior.

I can’t very much explain my actions, neither justify why I do them. My excuse would be it’s a generational thing and I copy what I see. I remember you always remind me to be the leader and the only time that I should follow is when the leader I choose to follow is Jesus. Many people would say how, or I’m not perfect but, it’s because they never try because if Jesus was perfect we can be too. Many people can say that it’s impossible to be like Jesus but in a song I’ve heard that 'impossible' is just reason or word for someone not to try.

I’ve lied and hurt you so badly. And I can never take back what I did as much as I wish I could turn the clock backwards and make the right decisions.

You’ve been the only one that has stuck up for me, even when mom would say something that's not right to me. But, I’ve proved you wrong now. All those time that you’ve been telling her to not say stuff like that to me has gone to waste because I’ve proved you wrong.

You’ve loved me unconditionally, trusted me, and you truly cared for me. Most importantly you’ve worked hard for all my needs and genuinely wanted what’s best for me. I know I’ve lost your trust, care, and kindness. But one thing I also know is that you still love me because if you didn’t you wouldn’t get mad when I do wrong. You wouldn’t punish me when I do wrong. You wouldn’t let me do what I want that’s wrong.

I really want to be the good and perfect daughter of your dreams, like when I was first born. I do want to earn back your trust, care, and kindness. I want to be the daughter that makes you proud. But when I act sometimes I don’t think about what’s going to happen next, and what the consequences will be, or the hurt and the
pain you feel as a result of my actions.

In a flash of my eyes I’ve done wrong and made you angry.

When you ask me how do I feel after I can’t explain them verbally but, to be honest I can write my feelings on a sheet of paper. I can talk all day about a topic but, when it comes to talking about my feelings I take that as a difficult challenge.

I know I shouldn’t be afraid to talk to you about anything but, most times, I just am. Because most of the times that I would come to you is to tell you about the actions I’ve done and it’s hard because I don’t know how to talk about my feelings. I can think about how you will respond and if I don’t tell you now what could happen later.

I’m not perfect, I know that’s not a good excuse but when I lie to you I feel guilty. And I don’t get a prize for lying I just get the effect from it. I think the reason people lie is because they don’t want the truth to come out. I cried because I realized I brought out the worst in you. In my heart I know that I’m a good daughter. I do have good intentions, I do not go about them in the right way.

I love you so dearly, with all my heart and soul, more than anything in this world.

I know when I was born you were so happy to have one and only one daughter. And I know that you didn’t expect or plan on me being like this. I’ve treated you unfairly, every time I think about it I know it’s not the right thing to do. I don’t really know why I have acted the way I have but, I know that I’m going to find a way to fix it.

I’ve broke one of God's commandments I didn’t: "Honor your father and your mother that your days may be long upon the land which the LORD your God is giving you."

I am sincerely sorry for all the sorrow I’ve caused you. I am going to show you how thankful I am to have you as my dad. I am asking for one more chance of your trust and caring to show you that I really and truly mean what I say. I am going to make decisions and I am going to make good ones. I am going to try to be the perfect person and daughter. I am asking for your forgiveness for my wrongs and asking for that chance to prove you that I can do better.

I’ve prayed about my situation and asked God to forgive my sins.

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Jazz
by: Anonymous

thank you for this it really helps.

Thank you~
by: Some imperfect potato

Thank you for writing this, it made apologizing easier for me.

I got in to an argument with my dad and he's been ignoring me which is due to his disappointment in me. As I've grown up I've been increasingly bottling up my feelings, and I'm disappointed in myself for that.

I hope he forgives me and once again thanks and God bless!

I appreciate this.
by: Anonymous

Thanks so much this letter, it really helped.

Thank you
by: Anonymous

Thank you, I hope you don't mind me using it to apologize to my dad who won't even look or talk to me.

I'm sorry dad 😔😪
by: Anonymous

I sent some parts of this letter to my dad just now. I hope he calls me tomorrow or texts back soon.

I'd had enough of the abuse
by: Anonymous

Great information. Thanks for sharing. However, I am fully aware this situation was not all my responsibility but I do understand I must take responsibility for my actions and behavior.

He loses his facilities and can be aggressive towards me and my siblings as well as friends and strangers on the street.

I have had enough and after years and years of therapy and working with my psychiatrists, I hit the wall. I had had enough and I stated that I had had enough.

I've grown tired of the yelling, shouting and abusive behavior. It's been a lifetime. Last night was the first time I felt strong enough to face him down instead of shriveling up like a wilted flower.

I made it clear, I am tired of his behavior and abuse. He knows where I stand now, however my behavior was still out of line. I've read and re-read your letter. I have pulled parts of it to create my own letter.

Thank you!

I Am Sorry Dad
by: Prince Obomate

I love this, I just really wish my Dad will forgive me and accept me back home.

Great thinking..
by: Kelvin mambo

Thanks for writing this down in a letter. I will be delivering a version of it to my dad and I hope I will be forgiven ..this suits me well. God bless you..

good apology letter
by: Kon lon

its so touching...thanks for that good guidance

Im sorry dad
by: Me

This literally touched me I cried alot while reading this...I just got into a fight about my dad being over protective and I was wrong he just wants me safe after what happened to me.

I always spend time with my friends and barely spend time with my family because of his girlfriend. I don't belong here in this world, I was a mistake... I really miss spending time with my family but ya know not everything is perfect.

sad
by: Anonymous

This letter touched my heart.... so sad

Perfect Apology
by: Good son, sometimes bad

This letter just suited me perfectly and the last paragraph each and every word is appropriate for me. Whatever you write at the starting of any letter, but the ending should be heart touching and a genuine one and this apology letter is impeccable in that case.
Thanks a lot!!!!

Amazing
by: Miyah

Umm, I have a really bad temper. I bottle up my feelings and really closed off. I hate talking about feelings and that gets me in trouble.

I talk back to my parents when I'm mad and I don't know how to control it because it's hard for me. I've been like this my whole life because I was bullied in three different schools, listened to rude and the most horrible things possible from the other students. So I find it hard to say sorry to my parents. I try to but nothing comes out. It's easier for me to write then to talk I guess. But this apology letter really helped me say the things I wanted to say to my parents.

Blessed
by: Anonymous

Thank you for this letter you are truly blessed

apology
by: Anonymous

This really saved me. I had no idea what to say to my dad because I lost my temper and punched someone in the face. But now I have something to say. My Dad's not a Christian believer so I don't know how he's going to respond. Thank you, God Bless you!

Greatful
by: Maryrose

This is exactly what I wanted. Thanks to the writer. May God Bless You. I haven't given this to my dad yet but I pray that he forgives me.

Adorable
by: Anonymous

Very adorable apology and it makes me feel happy and makes me glad. It touched my heart and my feelings.

pertaining to the apology
by: Anonymous

It's really touching. I love it

OMG!
by: A disappointment child

This almost made me cry. Someone had so much heart to write it. This letter is so forgiving I think it would make a grown hard father even cry. I thank you for this. This is exactly what I needed to send to my father. Thank you and praise god for whoever wrote this!

Saying Sorry to a father or any parent
by: Anonymous

Am in love with this apology letter it's so sweet and deserving to a disappointed parent. I believe he or she upon reading this can feel much better.

wow
by: Amy

I felt heart broken when I read this :(

:,(
by: Anonymous

After thinking about what I did, I kept thinking of ways to write my apology letter. So, I turned to the internet. After reading this letter, I cried.

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