The Perfect Apology Letter To A Girlfriend

Writing an apology letter to your girlfriend can be hard. You stare at a blank screen or piece of paper not knowing how to start. Get tips and guidelines, and get inspired by the letters below. They're written by others who found themselves needing to make amends to the girlfriends in their lives.

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Saying sorry to your girlfriend is never easy because there's so much at stake. Which makes writing a sincere apology letter for hurting her much more difficult.

Whether you've been a jerk, were caught lying to her, cheating on her, had a fight or have trust issues, you need to acknowledge the damage done and take full responsibility.

When passion is involved, feelings of regret and remorse reach a whole new level.

How to write an apology letter to A Girlfriend

1. Start your letter by acknowledging her hurt and validating her feelings.

2. Tell her how sorry you are and how much you want to fix things.

3. Be honest. Let her know how important she is to you.

4. Take full responsibility and ask her for forgiveness.

5. Promise and prove to her that it won't happen again.

Apology Letters To Girlfriends Written By Others

Read how sorry the authors are for hurting their girlfriends. Or, post your own online apology letter.

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I Never Deserved You, I'm Sorry 
Years ago, when I was attending college in Oregon I met the love of my life. It was freshman year and you and I met in chemistry lab. I was instantly …

My apology Letter to my ex Girlfriend Chaang  
Hello dear Chaang ... I can see you are happy now. When I think back of the day I left you alone and went out from your life, I can't imagine I did that …

My Last Apology to You 
Where to begin first of all I don't even know if you're going to get or want to even read this letter.. I wanted to hand this to you in person but I don’t …

I'm Sorry: Our Online Relationship 
My Sweetheart Daraksha... I know I caused you a lot of grief and sadness last night. I hurt you in ways which I can't probably imagine. You are right when …

In Honor of Letting You Go My Love 
Dear Love... I'm writing this because I have no other way to communicate with you about the topic I'm about to dwell over. I've loved you for the longest …

A Letter of Love, I'm Sorry 
I just want to hold you in my arms and never let you go. You are the best thing that has ever happened to me, you are my life. I am so sorry, so embarrassed, …

I'm Deeply Sorry For Lying My Love 
To the most important person in my life and my one true love... Sheila, I'm such a mess, but you know that--a real big mess. It was the look of hurt in …

My Apology for Lying 
I've lied to people all my life. I have done it multiple times for no reason. I have also lied to the one true love in my life and I can't say enough about …

Apology Letter to My Ex-Girlfriend 
Peyton... I don’t know what to say other than that I am so sorry, I truly am sorry. I cannot stop thinking about all of the pain that I have caused …

A letter To My First Love 
We were 16 when we first laid eyes, I never met someone like you before and afterwards. I was in love right then and there; I knew I could never escape …

An Apology Love Letter to Tala 
To My Dearest, It's been a while, months have gone by and still.. it all seems like it was yesterday. I remember the days we spent in the mountains, …

Apology Letter To the One I Love 
To The One I Love, I hope that you have been doing well. I write this not to beg for you. I am not trying to win you back or even change your heart. …

Brook's Apology Letter to Christy  
My Dearest Love, My Christy, I feel that an apology is simply not enough to make up for what I put you through during the last year of what is now our …

An Apology Letter to My Love, Samantha  
Samantha, I'm really sorry. I've made you feel like you weren't good enough and that what you did wasn't good enough--and I didn't show appreciation. I …

I'm sorry, I love you, I'm stupid 
Sorry.... I really don't want to leave, I don't really want to go without talking to you, hugging you, kissing you.. I don't really want to leave …

Sorry To The Sweetest Girl 
I don't often write letters like this but something inside me felt like it was the right thing to do. I hope this letter is not too late. I wanted …

Sorry Letter to My Girlfriend 
Words can't describe how sad I am right now knowing that you have given up on me. The worst part is knowing it is my own fault because I didn't listen …

Sorry Nicole 
Nicole I know you will probably never read this, but I am so sorry for the way I was. When you left it left me broken beyond belief, and here, three months …

My Apology --Always and Forever 
Dear Michele... I hope you read this. I hope everyone reads this. Because the whole world should know how much pain, hurt, how much I love you and how …

I'm Sorry. So Sorry Baby for the Way I Made you Feel! 
Baby, you mean the world to me, and having you upset is the very last place I ever want to be! Without the light you bring into my eyes, I think I'd …

I'm Sorry for Hurting You <3 
I'm writing this message cause I feel really bad, thinking about the way I hurt you makes me really sad. I'm sorry for all the hurt I've caused you …

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As you can see in the sample letters above, when love is involved, writing how sorry you are will inevitably include the passion and devotion of a love letter. The trick is in not letting your emotions weaken your apology or make it less effective.

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